Deck the halls with boughs of holly-jolly Christmas gift exchange game ideas. We have a sleigh full of over 30 fun games for you to unwrap and add to your holiday festivities.
So gather friends and family and get ready for some gift passing fun!
What is a fun way to exchange gifts?
I like the Christmas right left game. Of course, all the gifts would need to be suitable for all those attending. If there are kids and adults, I would make two separate circles for playing the game.
The right left game involves reading a story that has several rights and lefts in it.
There are several Christmas right left games available.
There is a nativity story right left game available at https://www.diva-girl-parties-and-stuff.com/right-left-christmas-game.html.
There is also a new for 2023 Scrooge Left Right Game here!
FUN!
I plan on using the Nativity story right left game for my girls bible at my school. This is the only Christian one I could find! Thank you soooo much! I know the girls will be thankful. <3 :D - Brooklyn
PRINTABLE GIFT EXCHANGE GAME
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P.S. There is a Christmas Auction idea someone submitted that sounds like it could also be a fun gift exchange alternative.
Initially, this is a lot of work. But we use the same poems over and over every year, or tweak as needed.
Number one, you're the first to go!
Choose any gift and don't be slow.
When you've got it, go back to your seat.
You get to keep it. Isn't that neat?!
It's time for number two to choose.
Hurry now. No time to snooze.
Pick a gift good for anyone
Cause now you must trade with number 1.
It's your turn to play, number three.
You've been waiting so patiently.
Grab a gift, then trade with 2.
Then trade with 1 before you're through.
Number four, find a gift wrapped in red or green.
Use good manners and don't make a scene.
Go back to your seat with a great big smile.
Cause you get to keep it - for a little while.
And so it goes. In my family, it's 5 gifts each (12 people).
Number twenty-one, don't be shy.
Grab a gift and then kiss it goodbye.
You're going to trade with thirteen and then seven.
As a final act, you must trade with eleven.
OR
It's up to you, forty-four
Choose a gift someone else will adore
Trade with a grandparent and then trade again
with a girl named Amy, then a guy named Ben.
As we continue, people have more than one gift, so when you are forced to trade, you can choose any one of the gifts in that person's pile. But they are still all wrapped until all 60 gifts / poems are completed.
And then ... we all open them at once. And there's laughter and teasing and booing and cheering. And people start eyeing other people's gifts.
And I have twelve more poems that are personalized (one for each person in the group) ...
It's Katy's turn to find her treasure.
What do you think will be her pleasure?
Katy can trade with one of the girls
And then trade again with someone with curls.
Everyone gets one last chance to trade, to try and get something they want, or at least get rid of something they don't want.
Once that's done, trading continues freely at will for 5 minutes. I time it. It's loud and obnoxious, but a lot of fun ...
Reply: What an awesome game Michelle. You're a very gifted poet. Wish I could see all of your poems. If that's an option, please email me here.
IMPORTANT NOTE: To anyone looking to get more of Michelle's gift poems, please note that I do not have contact info for Michelle. I am hoping she will see my note above and email me. I imagine that several of her poems are geared specifically to her family as in the case of the last two examples, so she may have mostly shared the more generic ones. If there is enough interest in more poems, I will create some additional ones if I don't hear back from Michelle.
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P.S. In case I write the poems, I have included a place for you to add wish items to the poems (eg. someone with blond hair, someone with a beard). - Wendy
I made a deck of cards (using MS Word, printing on index paper, and cutting to size) that our family uses year after year.
I purchase enough gifts so that everyone ends up with three at the end. But you can ask each person or family to bring x-number of wrapped gifts to help with the expense. I typically buy cool food/candy, pens, goofy socks and other $3 or less items.
To start, each person chooses a wrapped gift from the center. Then, I deal out all the cards so each person has the same quantity. The cards are customized with different actions, such as:
You can make up your own cards that are customized for your group.
Usually, people get one or two items they actually want!
Reply: I love this idea. Would you happen to have a picture of your cards and would you be willing to share it? If so, please contact me here!
I'm coming up with some ideas that might spark some of y'all's creativity:
EXAMPLES:
Santa’s Elf
Exchange your gift with the person who was born furthest north.
Christmas Baby
Exchange your gift with the person whose birthday is on or closest to Christmas.
Good Genes
Exchange your gift with the person who has the oldest living relative.
Patriot Baby
Exchange your gift with the person who was born on or nearest the 4th of July.
Animal Lover
Exchange your gift with the person who has the most pets.
Fewest Trips Around the Sun
Exchange your gift with the youngest participant.
Sibling Rivalry
Exchange your gift with the person who has the most siblings.
Wanna keep your gift?
Sing 15 seconds of a holiday tune, then pick the next participant. Otherwise, put this card back and choose again.
Spoiled
Exchange your gift with person who is an only child.
Animal Lover
Exchange your gift with the person who has the most pets.
Fewest Trips Around the Sun
Exchange your gift with the youngest participant.
Sibling Rivalry
Exchange your gift with the person who has the most siblings.
Spoiled
Exchange your gift with person who is an only child.
Vertical Challenge
Exchange your gift with the most vertically challenged person.
Old Salt
Exchange your gift with the person who has the most years of service, military and/or federal combined.
In the Spirit
Exchange your gift with the person you think is dressed in the most holiday spirit.
Reply: These are fantastic ideas for the gift exchange game. Thanks so much for sharing them.
I have 6 children so there is usually a lot of gifts to be opened and I hate the chaos of everyone opening gifts at the same time. We just don't enjoy any of it. So one year I decided to make a game family tradition.
There was real excitement as they just kept seeing gifts being added under the tree but they didn't know who it was for.
Because I had marked the gifts with secret codes before, I was able to put the appropriate answer with the right kid gift.
Once that was all done the actual opening tradition would go like this.
If someone can't discover the answer to the riddle or guessed wrong (mom needs to be watching so they are not opening a gift that doesn't belong to them) the kid loses the turn and the paper goes back to the bucket.
As more gifts get taken less are left as an option to choose answers for.
Worst case scenario with a riddle that the child cannot solve is that it will be left as the last gift to be opened.
With our family this game lasts about 2 hours and adds a lot of fun and excitement. My kids are 18, 17, 15, 13, 10 and 7 and it is such a hit.
You can also do variations . One year we did famous movie lines, matching the name of the movie. Another year we did Christmas quizzes.
One year we were 20 at our office party. Everyone brought in a gift.
If you wanted to bid on a gift but didn't have enough money, you could borrow from someone in exchange for a special favor (i.e.: bring coffee to his or her desk for a week, buy him or her lunch the following week, remove snow from his/her vehicle at next snow storm).
It was really fun!!!
We have several family members who are newlyweds, new parents, etc., and can't really afford to buy gifts. We have everyone buy a $25.00 gift card and see who can wrap it in the most creative way.
We've had...
It is fun to see the creative wrapping ideas and it is cost neutral since everyone gets a $25.00 gift card.
Reply: That sounds so fun JoAnn. Such a creative idea.
We play "Thief Bingo Gift Swap". I have 2 decks of cards, and enough gifts for everyone, as well as the gifts that the girls bring to exchange.
Everyone should have 2 gifts. If they don't, whoever doesn't have any or has only 1 can take a gift from one of the other girls.
Then they open their gifts. It is always a fun game and lots of laughs.
To play set chairs in a circle. Everyone gets one present.
Last year at the office, our gift exchange consisted of putting approximately 10 "tells" in a hat. They were drawn out one at a time and if the "tell" had to do with you, you left your gift on the chair and switched places with someone who was also up and moving.
Tell Examples:
It's funny because we also had "if you have ever been arrested" in the mix and it was drawn out last! Made for some interesting conversation.
It is a lot of fun, since the gifts are unwrapped and the good gifts get passed around very slowly and the gag gifts get thrown around the room very quickly since they don't want to get caught with them.
Reply: I can just picture the wild frenzy now. This could even be fun with wrapped gifts. Awesome idea.
We have done a maximum Christmas gift card given as a white elephant of $20. The trick is the manner in which you wrap the gift.
We cover all presents when they are brought in the house and pull them out based on who came first, first choice of the covered gift. If they don't look at the gift they also get to "steal" another's gift/rather exchange it, if the participant won points given thru out the night on other games or dinner votes. Once uncovered the gift is yours to keep.
Reply: Way to take the creativity up a notch. So fun! The wrapping is as exciting as the prize.
Over the years my husband has been given a collection of Christmas ties, most from the dollar store. This year I'm giving each person a tie and a partner to work with.
Reply: Such a clever idea Karen and love the play on words. Thanks so much for sharing.
Instead of exchanging gifts at the office for each other, try this!
There's lots of amusement and enjoyment!
I've seen everything from a doctor's kit, to an artist's kit, a basketball, a fishing pole, a lava lamp, you name it!
Once everyone has had their fun and unwrapped the wonderful toys, a designated charity receives these great new toys for their Christmas gift giving! It's fun for all, and makes for a very meaningful gift exchange with good feelings all around and a great outcome!
Reply: What a great idea. And the gift even gets to be enjoyed twice. Love ideas that pay it forward and give back to others. Thanks for sharing.
Our book club has done the initial game several times...always with great results and lots of laughter.
You can really get creative with this and it's an absolute HOOT to see what people come up with. It's loads of fun.
Reply: That... is... AWESOME! I love games and activities that inspire creativity. Thanks you so, so, much for sharing this. LOVE IT!
There is only my self, husband and daughter opening presents Christmas morning. Not having a lot of money to buy presents, I came up with an idea to make riddles for each present that I gave to my husband and daughter.
I didn't want to buy items that they may not really want or need. I didn't want to waste money or go through returning items.
Here is an example:
"I will help you find your way. I am not a compass and I am not a map.
If you ever need me, I will take you to a place you have never seen.
Who am I"?
It was a GPS, so in the box was the picture and money to purchase that item.
Some of the boxes did have a real gift inside. They both loved doing this and it made the opening of presents last longer. It was really fun.
This year I am going to get them to write riddles for the presents they are giving.
Reply: That's AWESOME Laura! Way to go on creating fun on a budget. Thanks so much for sharing. It looks like you just may have started a family tradition.
As an addition to our Christmas gift exchanges, I wrap a gift in the smallest box I can find. I then wrap that in a bigger box, and wrap that in a bigger box, etc. as many times as I can find a bigger box.
I start VERY small even if it means putting a note inside a ring box as to where the real gift is hidden in the house. Use lots of tape so it isn't easy to unwrap, but don't make it impossible.
Ever try opening a present with oven mitts on? Best game with a gift we've ever played.
If you want to convert this to your exchange of gifts, you could do the same with the dice and mitts.
For example, the first paper drawn says,
"The person with the most amount of keys."
You give the person with the most keys the gift.
Then draw another like,
"The tallest person in the room."
The gift is then passed to that person.
Before Christmas we all put 5 dollars in and buy a gift card from somewhere and play that game and one of us gets to keep it. Of course it is not a gift exchange, but you can use this idea for a gift exchange too.
Reply: I love this idea Niddia! What a fun twist to a number of gift exchange games this would be. Thanks so much for sharing. If anyone needs some inspiration for what to write on the draw cards, our Christmas Ring a Bell party game may help you.
For example, the first paper drawn says,
"The person with the most amount of keys."
You give the person with the most keys the gift.
Then draw another like,
"The tallest person in the room."
The gift is then passed to that person.
Before Christmas we all put 5 dollars in and buy a gift card from somewhere and play that game and one of us gets to keep it. Of course it is not a gift exchange, but you can use this idea for a gift exchange too.
Reply: I love this idea Niddia! What a fun twist to a number of gift exchange games this would be. Thanks so much for sharing. If anyone needs some inspiration for what to write on the draw cards, our Christmas Ring a Bell party game may help you.
My family plays this really fun game every year. Whomever the host is usually provides the gift.
TO PLAY:
Hope I have explained it well enough. This is a really fun and exciting game.
We are adding a twist to the left right game this year.
The gifts each have numbers on them. (1 through how many people are there). After reading the passing story, everyone keeps the number on their gift. Then everyone opens what is on their lap. OOH AHH... but wait! It's not done yet! heheh
Now, whoever has the #1 gets to decide if they want to keep or trade with the person on their LEFT or their RIGHT. Then person #2 gets to go and decide to keep or trade left or right. Keep going until all numbers have been called.
When the last number is called, then you get to keep what you are holding. =)
It's fun to see what people keep or decide to trade.
everyone brings a creatively wrapped, untagged gift. Can be a white elephant, food item or gag gift. Put names in a basket. Draw so that everyone has a gift. Give each person 2 dice. Set timer for 15 minutes. Take turns rolling dice. If number totals odd amount pass your gift to left. Even amount pass gift to right. Doubles, you get to keep gift. Keep going until timer sounds then open gifts. Someone may have more than one and someone might have none. To make sure everyone has a gift, holders of more than one can raffle off their extras to the highest bidder. Money collected then goes to a charity of choice.
Our family has been playing this gift exchange game now for 9 years. There are up to 20 of us. Each family takes turns picking the "theme" for the gifts each year. (For example, say the theme is the Letter M, ideas could be money, morning, monkeys, merlot... or the theme is Bedtime - blankets, books, book lights, pjs', night creme ...) Everyone brings a $25.00 gift with that theme in mind. Then we play the traditional take a number, steal the present game. It adds an extra twist to the game and is always fun to see the clever ideas people come up with to stick with the theme.
WE WRAP THE GIFTS THE CRAZIER THE PRESENT THE BETTER.... EACH GIFT HAS AN ENVELOPE ATTACHED WITH MONEY OR A PENNY OR NOTHING I CUT OUT ADS OUT OF MAGAZINES AND ATTACH FUNNY POEMS SOMETIMES SLIGHTLY NAUGHTY DEPENDING ON THE CROWD....YOU GET TO OPEN ONLY THE PRESENT SO YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IS IN THE ENVELOPE...FIRST PERSON UP GETS CHOICE.. ALL THOSE AFTER TAKE A NEW GIFT OR TAKE SOMEONE'S AWAY. I USUALLY HAVE A COUPLE WITH 20.00 BILLS WHICH ARE THE BIGGIES WHEN ALL GIFTS ARE CHOSEN YOU OPEN THE ENVELOPES I USUALLY VIDEO TAPE AS THEY HAVE TO READ THE POEMS OUT LOUD WE WATCH THE MOVIE THE NEXT YEAR AND LAUGH ALL OVER AGAIN. THEY ENJOY THIS MORE THEN THE REGULAR GIFTS. SOME OF OUR BETTER GIFTS ARE THE GOLDEN PRETZEL THE 4FT CERAMIC OWL... THE WEIRDER THE BETTER!!
During Thanksgiving every year, the theme for Christmas giving is chosen. Part of the fun is figuring out what to give in a 2-3 week time period.
One year everyone had to bring 2-3 presents that were red.
Another year, 2-3 presents that started with the letter "C" for Christ child. Lots of chocolate given that year :)
And one year it was trashy white elephant gifts.
Another year, re-gifted items only.
And during a particular ambitious year, it was all homemade gifts.
Understand that kids under 15 still received their own presents. But grownups had so much fun with this, that they could not wait to join the grownups.
The presents have low $ set so each person usually spends about $20 max on the 3 gifts and no gift tags allowed.
Now the fun starts, the host and hostess of Christmas get to chose the game to be played each year.
Can be charades, Pictionary, one card poker, trivia, etc. Whoever wins the round, picks the gift, opens it, then get to be the leader for the next round. When all the gifts are gone, then set a number of rounds (can be dice game here) to steal the gifts.
I think we are going with the theme that everything has to be a re-gifted item this year.
Won't know until Thanksgiving Night.
In our family, everyone brings a wrapped gift for themselves. The gifts are all mixed up and then passed out. Everyone opens one of the gifts, then you must guess who bought the gift. Have a list of everyone in the family so you can write down your guesses. Some are easy, some are hard. At the beginning of the game everyone puts $1 in a pot, whoever has the most correct guesses wins the pot. The good thing is that everyone goes home with a gift they really want.
Last year during our xmas party i was designated to plan for everything and then i came up with this right and left gift giving idea. Since after all the games were finished several extra gifts are still waiting to be given away, i decided to use the right and left gift giving to make it fair for everyone. They had soooooooo much fun and still wanting for more. Many attendees are actually taking a photocopy of the story and wanted to use it in their own party in the future. tnx a lot.
ps. they loved the the game so much that they decided to give me a watch as a present for my effort.
Last year, being the chairperson of our teachers and employees Christmas Party, I made use of the exchange gift game of the Right Family and everyone had fun....this year I am again assigned as in-charged of this year's Christmas Party and I would really like to do another Christmas gift exchange game.....any suggestions please other than the Nativity Story which I will suggest for the church workers' Christmas party....thank you and more power!
Reply:
You can always rewrite Twas the Night Beore Christmas...
Twas the night RIGHT before Christmas when all through the house.
Not a creature was LEFT stirring... that's RIGHT, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung RIGHT on the chimney with care.
In the hopes that St. Nicolas would soon be RIGHT there.....
OK tell your guests to bring a present, and everyone gets in a circle. Put all of the presents in the middle. Then, get a hat and put all of your names in it. Someone picks a name, and that name gets to choose a present, put they have to be wrapped! Then, pick another name, and that person can either take a present from the middle, or someone else's present! Keep doing this until all presents are gone. You need about 10-15 players for this game, but it's worth it!! At the end, everyone opens their presents, and they get to keep them!
Every year we bring several wrapped gifts that are $5 and under (mainly fun $1 gifts)some are marked man, woman, girl boy, etc. We are then all given a circle card (just a circle cut out of thin cardboard about 3 in. in diameter) that has about 10 holes punched evenly along the edge of the circle, one of the punched out circles has a circle drawn around it with a marker (designates where to start). We are also given a toothpick which is placed in the starter circle. The whole group sits around the wrapped gifts that are in the middle. Count off the numbers 1 through 6 until everyone has a number. Each person takes a turn rolling the dice. They call out the two numbers rolled. Everyone with those two numbers gets to move their toothpick into the next hole (if it's the same number twice ex. 3 and a 3, then everyone with the number 3 gets to move their toothpick twice). Once you get your toothpick around the entire circle and back to the beginning you get to pick a present from the middle. DON'T open until all the gifts are taken. CATCH -if you roll your own number you have to go back to the start/beginning of your circle. (ex. I'm a 2 and I rolled a 5 and a 2--I have to move my toothpick back to the beginning and start over.) You can continue moving around the circle over and over, taking a present each time you make it back to the beginning until the gifts are gone. When there are no more gifts in the middle you can either open them or do a lightning (timed) round where you can steal other peoples gifts while you play.
Hope that made sense, it's alot of fun! :o)
EVERYBODY BRINGS A $10 GIFT AND PUT ON TABLE.
JUST BEFORE TH GAME STARTS PUT A STICKER ON ONE OF THE GIFTS.
RULES:
EVERYBODY PICKS A GIFT FROM THE TABLE.
DO NOT OPEN THE GIFT.
WE WILL THEN START ROLLING THE DICE.
LOOK CAREFULLY AT YOUR GIFTS WHOEVER HAS CHOSEN THE GIFT WITH THE______STICKER YOU START.
To make it fair depending on the size of group, you can go around the circLe twice or give each person 3 rolls.
1- Everybody Pass the Gifts left
2- Everybody Pass the Gifts right
3- Open the gift in your hand
4-Trade gifts with whomever you want.
5-Make someone else unwrap their gift
6-You get to keep the gift you have in your hand.
The only exception to 6 is if you have the gift you brought, in which case you would roll again.
Once everybody has had a turn rolling everyone should have a gift to keep.
Before drawing names for the office Christmas party, everyone had to write the year they were born. Then you had to find a gift for that person reflecting the birth year. It was hilarious to see when many very familiar items were "born". For example the person born in 1966 received a model of the Starship Enterprise. 1966 was the year Star Trek was first aired on TV.
I was looking for instructions on how to play a gift exchange game that I played at a party about 15 years ago....
We had one die and when rolled each number meant something different like 1=open new gift if you don't have one, 2=pass your gift right, 3=pass your gift left, 4=take anyones gift, 6=pass the dice, etc.
Has anyone heard of this?
I come from a large family of 10 so there are a lot of family members and it is impossible for me to buy everyone a Christmas gift. so for Christmas last year I told everyone to bring five $1.00 bills and I read the story of Right Family five times. now the twist to the game is I purchase 5 gift cards from food places. everyone has to put their dollar in a small envelope with the exception of one envelope having a five dollar bill so we had 25 people playing the game and once the story was over the one with the five dollar envelope won the gift card and the dollars were emptied into a pot. this went on for another 4 time so when all the gift cards were won the last game was played for the money totaling all the bills collected from every game so the winner ends up taking the total cash.. this was played by both kids and adults..very fun and all I had to pay was 25.00 for my gift cards..right/left game was fun.
Our annual Christmas party is also looking for a revamp. However, the twist we have added to the traditional White Elephant these past years has been to make the presents difficult to open, and have a prize for most creatively wrapped present. We've had gifts hidden in food, scavenger hunts, math puzzles (to get a combination lock open), etc. It's been a lot of fun, and very interesting...
Everyone who wants to participate will have to bring a 10 dollar present and they will put it around the tree and they will put the number people who are playing and the people will pick a number out of a hat and that will be their turn. for example the 1st person will pick a present and open it. then the 2nd person will be able to choose to steal the 1st person`s present or open a new present then so on.
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I HAVING A PARTY TO GIVE AWAY 30 PIECES OF POTTERY I MADE TO 30 GUESTS. I DON'T WANT TO RAP THEM I WANT TO NUMBER THEM 1 TO 30 THEN DRAW A NUMBER CLAIM YOUR PIECE THEN THE NEXT NUMBER CAN TAKE THE PREVIOUS PIECE OR TAKE THE NEXT DRAWN PIECE ANY HELP OUT THERE???
IT WAS FUNNNNNNNNNNN!
by: Jodi
This was really a blast fun game. We enjoy it!!!
Right left game
by: Val
I have used the Thanksgiving and Christmas versions (2) of the right left game four times recently and everyone has a blast, including men and children. People keep asking for more. My problem is that I need a story for New Years eve and can't find one.
Christmas left right
by: Danielle
I played this with two groups, ages 50 to 95. They had such fun, laughed until they cried. It made my holiday because I have a nephew in hospital, in a coma and has brain damage. Love it.
White elephant poem
by: Ruby
I could not find the poem
Please Help
by: gmarx
I really like the right/left gift card money game, but I am lost when it comes to the final game. Do you keep putting the $1 bills and a single $5 bill in envelopes and reading the same story, even for for final big pot of money
GREAT IDEAS!!
by: Debbie
Thanx for all the ideas!! I need to inject some fun into a family party!!
Great Games!
by: BigDaddy
Your ideas were incredible thanks for giving us some great options for hosting our work christmas party this year! Keep up the great work!!!!
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by: ac
I love these games. I intend to try them out this CHRISTmas. I have been needing some new & innovative ways to do gift exchanges & I believe I have found them.
Really good idea!
by: Marisa
This is a really good idea! I am going to use them if u dont mind =] There really good ideas i hope you give mor great ideas
Merry Xmas 2 Everyone
by: emo_brokEn
Hi..your ideas here was great!
I Love This A Lot!
by: Rebecca
I love this! I'm having a Christmas party soon, so this comes in handy! Thanks!
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by: Amanda
I'm in charge of games for my family's Christmas party and I need a creative way to pass out gift cards. It can be a game, but we are already doing the dice game and the white elephant game. We did the left right game last year and no one seemed to like that too much. My family seems to like more hands on games. Also our theme is food related so it would be even better if someone can come up with something involving food.
Thanks! Hope you guys can help me out !
Reply:How many people will you be giving gift cards to? I've done some scavenger hunts for gifts in the past where I put clues and or puzzle pieces to put together to read a clue that leads to a gift. I've wrapped the clues in tin foil and baked them into cake (no one knows who will get a clue and which they'll get), and other finger foods. It's so much fun watching everyone "play with their food". You could just hide partial images of where a certain gift card is hidden similar to the Find Me picture scavenger hunt idea.
P.S. When we play the right left game it gets very wild and very hands on, but then we have a creative, funny, and crazy narrator read the story every time we play. Most times we can hardly pass the gifts anymore by the time the story comes to an end because we're laughing so hard.
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